Unconditional love is the best gift parents can give their child.

As parents, we love our children, but is that really enough? When we set out to welcome children into this world, we know (and accept) that there are things we are going to have to provide for them. We need to make sure they have healthy food to thrive, that they have clothes and a place to live, and that they are always safe. These are the minimum requirements to ensure a child is safe and healthy, but we also know that we need to give them love. Parents love their children and they show it by taking care of them and providing them with everything they need.


However, has a parent ever stopped to think about “how” they love their child. Is feeling enough or does love take work? We think love comes naturally, and it’s not something we really have to put a lot of effort into, but maybe we should. Intentionally loving a child can be the best thing you can do for them, and when you love them unconditionally, that’s what makes all the difference.

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Let’s look at unconditional love and what it means to a child when this is the type of love they receive from a parent.

What is unconditional love?

First, let’s take a closer look at what unconditional love is. This is something many people think they know, but they may not, in fact. According to Healthline, unconditional love is simply explained as “unconditional” love. It means that you don’t base your love for your children on what they can give you in return, and it doesn’t depend on how they act or who they become. It also means that if, in the future, your relationship has difficult times, you continue to love them and wish them the best.


Why loving your child unconditionally is important

It’s easy to just say it’s obviously important to a child, but let’s take a closer look. According to the Newport Academy, many studies have been conducted on the benefits of unconditional love, and they have found that children who are loved unconditionally have healthier brain development, are able to form positive relationships, have a greater great resistance to stress and even have a stronger immune system when fighting physical illness. Unconditional love is so important because it sustains all aspects of a person’s life when they are loved unconditionally.

How to love your child unconditionally

If mom wants to try harder to love her child and make sure he offers her unconditionally, there are some things she can keep in mind. According to AHA Parenting, many aspects of unconditional love can be found in the gentler parenting approach. This means that when parents set boundaries, they do so with love and resist “lashing out” when angry and apologizing when you make a mistake. It’s also important to remember to accept your child for who they are and never compare them to anyone else, because you love them for who they are.


Sources: Healthline, Newport Academy, AHA Parenting


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